How to Get a Man to Smile

by Mika Lo

Overview

Gloomy men can suck the fun out of a situation and make it hard to have fun. Helping to turn a guy's frown upside down can be a positive act that is both an unselfish yet self-serving act. Encourage a man to smile by taking interest in his situation and by feeding him positive emotional vibes that will stave off a case of the mopes.

Step 1

Remember an important date. Announcing that you are excited about the upcoming rivalry game that includes his favorite sports team or getting him a card for his birthday is a surefire way to induce a smile. When you do this you will make him feel important and relevant.
Step 2

Offer a targeted compliment. Since men don't often hear compliments, giving him one can help to boost his ego and esteem. Ensure that your compliment is not too forward, suggestive or lending of false hope if that is not your intention.
Step 3

Tell him a joke. Lighten the atmosphere with a joke you just learned. Take some of the pressure or stress away from his day by offering some humor. Injecting some fun into situations will brighten his spirits.
Step 4

Give him a gift. Offering to take a guy to lunch may make it to a man's heart, but you will most likely also get him to crack a smile. Including him in your circle can help him to relate. Buying him something he likes such as a favored movie, song, or even making him a handmade gift can go a long way.
Step 5

Smile at him when saying hello. A warm greeting often provokes the same response. Showing that you are happy to see him will evoke his emotional subconscious which can translate into a smile.

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If you are romantically linked to this man, spontaneous acts such as a message, intimacy, or a surprise date can be ultra helpful.
If you are romantically linked to this man, spontaneous acts such as a message, intimacy, or a surprise date can be ultra helpful.